these choices we make

I’m starting to come to terms with something that I’ve been fighting against my whole life. The idea that no matter how much love, encouragement and support we give, we cannot change another person. I have watched family members, former friends and myself make some pretty poor choices over the years. Some of them less revocable than others. Some…

a toast to ordinary love

What does it mean when you’d rather sit on the couch with your partner snuggled up drinking a gf beer and watching Game of Thrones than going out to a late night party? What does it mean when the best part of your day is your partner coming home and you watch the sunset together from…

i’m calling bullshit

We humans are all filled with little neuroses and idiosyncrasies, aren’t we? When I was struggling with major depression and anxiety issues a few years ago, I used to go along to my weekly counselling session, take my medication and wonder why the hell I was crazy when everyone else appeared so… normal. I’ve realised…